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9/11Be Survivor: Victim Mentality Bad For You!
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- 2021-01-28
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- victim, survivor, narcissism, personality, narcissistic, narcissistic personality disorder, NPD, psychopaths, antisocial, cold therapy, cold empathy, psychopathology, therapy, relationships, abuse, divorce, battering, spousal abuse, domestic violence, psychotherapy, personality disorders, cluster B, DSM, self, ego, object relations, psychodynamics, stalking, harassment, emotional abuse, verbal abuse, psychological abuse, sexual abuse, molestation, incest, deviance, perversions, schizoid, antisocial, borderline, psychology, psychiatry, pathology, inverted, compensatory, pedophilia, paraphilias, serial killers, shared fantasy, collapsed, mortification, psychopath, somatic, cerebral
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- English
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- 178.3M
I am the last person to invalidate the harrowing experience of victimhood. I was the first to describe in great detail narcissistic abuse in 1995 and I coined the phrases “narcissistic abuse” and “victims of narcissistic abuse”.
But when victimhood becomes an ideology, a career, a profession, or an identity (like identity politics), it is manipulative and pernicious. Such victims turn into abusers, obsessed with power, celebrity, and money.
The only way out of victimhood is to assume full personal responsibility – to own – one’s life, choices, and the consequences of such choices.
Find and Buy MOST of my BOOKS and eBOOKS in my Amazon Store: https://www.amazon.com/stores/page/60F8EC8A-5812-4007-9F2C-DFA02EA713B3
But when victimhood becomes an ideology, a career, a profession, or an identity (like identity politics), it is manipulative and pernicious. Such victims turn into abusers, obsessed with power, celebrity, and money.
The only way out of victimhood is to assume full personal responsibility – to own – one’s life, choices, and the consequences of such choices.
Find and Buy MOST of my BOOKS and eBOOKS in my Amazon Store: https://www.amazon.com/stores/page/60F8EC8A-5812-4007-9F2C-DFA02EA713B3
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